So today at the dinner table,the phone rang and it was daddy...he was telling me what he was up to tomorrow and then i said quickly that i had to go since we were getting ready to have FHE...gramma was here so we thought we would have it together...anyway just before FHE...i told gramma what jim had said to me on the phone...and well...don't say an adult saying in front of a 4 year old...here's what happened...'So jim said he's going to be thrown into the fire tomorrow and going to do a programming job all by himself...he did get well prepped today'...then gage said...'i don't want a new dad'...uh what are you talking about?...gage continues...'i don't want dad to be thrown into the fire and have to get a new dad'...so i said...'we are not getting a new dad...i am sorry i said dad is going to be thrown into the fire...that's just an adult saying dad is really not going to be gone and we don't have to get a new one'...gramma had to help me out with this one too...she said...'dad is getting to do a new job to do' or something like that effect...the whole situation almost made me cry...gage really thought dad was going to be thrown into the fire...note to self...WATCH WHAT YOU SAY!...they are sponges!!!!